You can request support from specialised (volunteer) organisations. Many of these were established to complement existing social support services. They usually do their work free of charge. You can also contact them if you want to help other people. Many organisations work with volunteers. In general, new volunteers are more than welcome.
Useful websites
Korrelatie.nl (in Dutch): Anonymous help for mental health and psychosocial problems
Slachtofferhulp.nl: Victims Support Netherlands helps victims of traffic accidents, crimes or disasters
Luisterlijn.nl (in Dutch): A listening ear for your problems, day and night
Centrumseksueelgeweld.nl: Sexual Assault Center for help with problems caused by sexual violence, such as rape and assault